How Do I Help Someone With Cancer?
I can remember a lot of people asking me "what can I do to help?". I never knew what to tell them. I was almost too overwhelmed to know what I needed. I have asked this question of other survivors in order to give people some ideas on what they can do to help.
I love to hear from my support system
Advise, listen, encourage, show me the way forward to help support my fiancee
pray, make me laugh, have someone just to talk to
Wear SunScreen and stay out of the sun when you can
Make me smile. That alone is enough :D
Pray for him to come closer to God
Read my blog, relate, be inspired or just understand.
ADVOCATE for me. Check to see if I'm ok when I do not answer the phone
Just support me as I do them
Be mindful that my vision is not what it used to be
Just listen to my gripes and encourage me,
Just listen and accept that we will get thru this one day at a time.
crabs legs please
Pray. Learn. Hug.
Pray for all who need it.
give me tips on what to eat what they been through their time and what they did as for treatments
treat me the same, don't be on eggshells around me
Just keep in touch with me....don,t pigeon hole me...
just sit with me. its ok not to talk a lot. follow my lead.
Continue to fight the battle and win the war!
Love my husband and kids
Just be there,love me tell I know what it is .
Be loving and be positive. (Jokes are great!)
Love and support me and still know im still me, always the joker
Be open and honest. I don't need pity or sympathy. Ask questions, don't assume...and STAY OFF THE INTERNET...beets and milk thistle aren't a cure!