How Do I Help Someone With Cancer?

Just listen

Just treat me like they always have I'm still the same ol Colleen. To my new supporters just keep leaving comments I love hearing from you & I deeply appreciate them.

Pray for me...relax around me and then ...Feed Me.

Tell me that the side effects from chemo will soon go away.

Accept & respect my decision for not going with mainstream treatment.

Accept the NEW "normal" !

Acknowledge my Problem

Advice and tips

Advice!

ADVICE! Support!

Advice, words of encouragement

advise me of new treatments we might not have known about. we are not interested in alternative medicine just yet untill we have exhausted all standard treatment.

Advise, listen, encourage, show me the way forward to help support my fiancee

ADVOCATE for me. Check to see if I'm ok when I do not answer the phone

Advocate!

Always hold my hand!

Anything you can tell me that will make the chemo and rad. treatments a little easier to deal with.

appreciate the little things

Attend doctor visits and chemo sessions. Love me. Feed me. Make me laugh. Help me cry. Clean my house.

Avoid telling me they know I'll be fine

AWARENESS, fundraising.

Be around

Be as funny as you can.

Be as much support for others/families

Be aware

be encouraging!!

Be happy and take care of there temples.

Be happy around me. No negativity.

Be here

Be hopeful.

Be less dramatic! I do not need more drama in my life please!

Be love.

Be loving and be positive. (Jokes are great!)

Be mindful that my vision is not what it used to be

Be mindfull of your health. Go to the Doctor if you need to! :)

Be my rock, not the other way around.

Be open and honest. I don't need pity or sympathy. Ask questions, don't assume...and STAY OFF THE INTERNET...beets and milk thistle aren't a cure!

be patient and supportive

Be patient with me, help me find resources to learn about my cancer

Be patient, forgive me if I back out of plans, understand not all cancers are identical

Be positive

be positive and encouraging

Be postive and your prayers

Be suppportive..........

Be there

Be there for me

BE THERE FOR ME AND ANYONE ELSE WITH CANCER

Be there for me ad share your experiance

be there for me and talk to me through the crazy times in my life!!

Be there for me and to help by donating

be there for me and understand when I feel low

Be there for me when I need a shoulder to lean on.

Be there for me when i'm having a bad day or just feel like a chat

Be there for me.

be there for me.when im emotional,hug me.when im angry,listen while i vent. when im happy,be happy with me.

be there for support but keep a good sense of humor

Be there for the patient

Be there no matter what.

Be there when I need a shoulder to cry on or a ear to listen! To also give me the space and understanding when I need time for myself.

Be there!

be there, give advice and most importnantly PRAY for her~

Be there, listen and be accepting when I want to talk about my choices.

Be there.

Be understanding that I just want to move on asap and get rid of this!

Be vocal about cancer awareness.

Bear With Me On My Worst Days, Sorry

Become a bone marrow donor, donate blood or both. Consider volunteering as well! :)

Become a Bone Marrow Donor.

Become a SCT-BMT donor and encourage others to do same

being there

blog with me

Blog, success stories, words of encourgement

brave

burn me cd's of what they're listening to, bring their own food when they come to visit.

Call and write me

Call and write me.

Call and write often

Call me

Call me or send me a note to let me know they are thinking about me, and to treat me at they always have. No difference.

Call me, hang out with me, text me, go to yoga class with me when I feel up to it

call me, visit, and be the biggest supporters I can have

Call or email me to see how I am doing or feeling.

Call or offer to help in some way

Call, send cards, visit, energy work

Call, stop by, let me talk

Call,email

can donate to Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure (I'm walking in October!)

Cards in mail are nice!

Cards, texts messages, facebook messages, any thoughts and positive vibes you have, send then my way!

Change their eating habits, take care of themselves, ask questions, be aware cosntantly of what you are putting in your body

chat with me

Chat, email, pick me up when I feel down

Check on me. Trust me when I say I'm good....I'll tell you for sure when I'm not.

cheer,pray,listen

clean my house

Comment on my blogs and pray

Continue praying for a cure of ALL CANCERS

Continue to do what they are doing...calling, messaging, texting. Every bit of good Ju Ju helps!

Continue to fight the battle and win the war!

Continue to lift me up in prayer.

Continue to pray

Continue to pray and if you can, help us with the medical costs and other expenses.

Continued Prayers & Support

could use donation items for raffle and giving to others

crabs legs please

Diet, Exercise, Stress Reduction, Detoxification

Distractions and hugs.

Do a good deed for anyone you know in need.

Do monthly checks!

Do not Judge Me

Do not pity me.....and I am sorry stop asking me how I feel...LOL

Do proper screening for themselves

Do something for contribute to cancer doesn't matter what

Doing just what you are doing. Being super supportative

Don't be afraid to laugh with me. I am still the same person, but my perspective has been altered.

Don't be afraid to talk about it

Don't forget about my family..they're the ones keeping things running and sane!

Don't give me pity, be positive and know "It Can Be Beaten"

Don't hang back. I love knowing you're thinking of me and still want me around.

Don't say it's gonna be okay - but don't avoid me either

Don't sweat the small stuff. Be appreciative.

don't tell me I look well

Don't worry so much--I'm trying to enjoy your company

Donate

Donate $$ to the anal cnacer foundation. Raising awareness saves lives!

DONATE $1 OR AS MUCH AS YOU CAN:this will help a child left behind. get a fresh start in the real world.

Donate Blood & Support

donate blood and bone marrow

Donate donate donate...Even if it is one dollar. Support this cancer blog and the ACS

donate for my ongoing treatment

Donate Help, Money; Get Involved

donate money and give a lot of hugs.

Donate on my website.

Donate or walk with my team.

Donate platelets or donations to Cleaning for a Reason

Donate to an cancer organization!

DONATE to any childhood brain cancer research foundation... Raising awareness is free. WORD OF MOUTH!!

Donate to research.

Donate to the ACS.

Donate to the cause

DONATE!

dont fuss ,keep positive

dont loose the faith

Drink (ALKALINE Water) the is over pH 8

Ease my burdens not by saying, "let me know what I can do", because I can't get that far on my own. Ease them by just taking charge of what I am worrying about, I am very open about the things that need doing that I can't get to.

Eat and live healthy, fight for better foods!

Educate me and lend advise

email

Email me or call me so I can hear a real live person so I can talk, cry or laugh with them and they will understand. This is what I really need--it's called LOVE and that's what I'll give you in return.

Email, come round, make me laugh, give my kids a good time

encourage colonoscopies early

Encourage me !!!

Encourage others to be aware of the signs of ovarian cancer and promote vigilance in health care.

Encourage, Support

encouragement

Encouragement in any form.

Encouragement notes

encouragement, advice

encouragement, laughter, funny jokes

Encouraging words and lots of hugs

enjoy life with me.

Enjoy their own lives!

Feed me all the best out come stories they can find

Fight for decent available healthcare for everyone

Fight for those who have cancer. Cancer hits when you least expect it and it doesn't matter who you are!

fight for veterans health care

Follow my progress and pray for all of us.

fundraise for sarcoma foundation

fundraising events

Get a second opinion. Think outside the Box. Take a bold step forward. And mostly, do your own research.

GET CHECKED!!

Get involved by registering to be a bone marrow donor. Not just for someone you know but for anyone in need. There is a huge misconception that donating bone marrow is painful and risky when in fact it isn't.

Get involved with others who are ill

Get me out of the house for something besides medical appts

Get me out of the house once in a while. But understand I have bad days and can't always make it out.

Get outside support, know the disease

Get regular mammograms and pray for all victims of cancer

Get regular thryoid checks.

Get tested

Get the word out to the medical community to make more women aware of gynecological cancer symptoms

Get their yearly's, BSE's EVERY month, MAMMOGRAMS every year

get your thyroid checked...asap

gimme puppies!!!

Give advice--but go easy Im a sissy..lol

Give blood, be patient and smile

Give me advice

give me and other cancer survivors/fighters a reason to smile and/or laugh

give me books and love

give me good advice

Give me information

Give me space in a time when I have no control.

Give me space when i need it and forgive me when my moods are down

Give me space when I need it.

give me space, sometimes not mentioning it when we're together

give me tips on what to eat what they been through their time and what they did as for treatments

give time so others have more time

Give to the cancer support groups

Give us advice and offer up prayer for my father.

Give us time and make us laugh

Give wonderful advice

Give,Give,Give

Go get your colonoscopy!

Go get your damn mammogram!

Go on my website and purchase a calendar for $10

Go to my blog and comment or DONATE! http://cancersucksass.blogspot.com

Go to my doctors' appointments! understand my situation better...

go to my website

Good thoughts and prayers and any general pointers from native New Yorkers

Gregg would have wanted you to live your life to the fullest.

Hang out with me. Be around more often.

Have a drink with me.

Have fun with me, don't pity or feel sorry.

Have regular checkups and question anything that doesn't seem "right" in your body.

heard the song "lean on me"?

help ease the financial burden

help find a cure

Help me feel not so alone

Help me feel positive about my peg.

Help me financially so that I can help others.

help me find a way to walk again

Help me find places to sleep and eat along my walk route, To donate gift cards for gasoline and other expenses related to my walk. To find places that I can speak at. Donate money towards my walk expenses.

Help me if I need it, just be there for me.

Help me make up stupid names for my cancer

Help me to get a job hence please my parents

Help me to keep a positive attitude on those days that I find it hard to do so.

help me to realize that I can still be sexy and not so selfconsious about my breast

Help me to stay positive

Help me to stay positive.

help me to talk. I'm stuck in my head.afraid to scare everyone.

help me understand what to expect

Help me with my book so that I can help others to know that fighting is worth all of the chemo that you can take.

Help raise awareness about young women and breast cancer

Help raise funds for second opinions and donate to the Sarcoma Alliance

help think love breath together and better

Help to keep me going

help with Dr. communications, disability letters

Help with post treatment support!

Hold on loosely, but don't let go. TRY to be normal!

Hold the space for me to share and offer support

How to deal

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pa8biy_NS10

Hugs and distractions, bring me spicy food

Hugs!!

I am a supporter

I am desperate for help for my family, I cannot even bury my husband right now if he should pass away. Anything can help us

I am here to support others through this, we are not alone.

I am more about helping others to deal right now ... cancer has been my companion for so long, I just want to help others know how to live with it.

I am positive 90 percent of the time. Let me whine the other 10 percent ... It's not going to kill me. :)

i dont have many supporters

I have a lot of help from the doctors and their team, and my common law hubby.

I have been alone through most of it.

I have so much support and I can't think of anything that they don't already do

I have struggled with a monumentally devastating depression for almost 4 years, although now I am finally coming out of it and I feel like myself again. I have been getting there for awhile now, but until recently I would regress and have to start all over again. What do I need? Cheerleading! A team hug! A loving word! Encouragement when I fall off the confidence bandwagon. Sisterly support.

I hope my story can prepare others for what they or their loved ones will go through.

i just wanna talk about things that pop into my head

I love to hear from my support system

I need resources and I need to help others

I need to hear from other people that have lost love ones to leukemia and experienced a stem cell transplant.

I want to know and not be surprised..although my Med. Onc. tells me "I am going to have surprises."

i will tell you

I'd love to find long term survivors who have the same stage and lymph node involvement.

I'll let you know

I'm a crafty person would love to link up with people to sew, knit and crochet to not think aobut cancer

I'm fine at this time; will support others.

I'm new to all this so anything to prepare me for what's ahead will help!

I'm not sure - maybe just love me

If you have an alternative therapy you believe in please share it, but then please don't pressure someone with cancer to try it. You have no idea what all they are dealing with and what they need most from you is love and support. Mention it once... then support.

Inform me what is next.

Inform Others of the Danger

information, kind words

is pray

join me on our facebook page "the giving back group"

Join my "WTF?" campaign to raise awareness & funding for lung cancer

Join my mission to create a global chain of hope and donate fleece throw blankets and small gifts for adults and children.

Join my Team or Make a Donation at StandUp2Cancer.org toward the Megin S. Fanz Memorial Fund

Just allow me to tell the story of this journey

Just be an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on.

Just be around

just be positive

Just be supportive

Just be themselves.

Just be there

Just be there & let it be known that you are there.

Just be there for me :-)

Just be there for me when I need you, no questions asked

Just be there for me.

Just be there to listen

Just be there to listen and cheer me on.

Just be there when I need someone to talk to

Just be there,love me tell I know what it is .

Just be there.

Just be there. If that's to listen, be a shoulder to cry on or to make me laugh when i really don't feel like it.

Just be thier for me, when I need them

Just be understanding while I am going through all of the ups and downs

Just being there, and being reminded we can do it.

Just being there, makes it better!

Just being there.....

Just by being there and knowing people care

Just have patience and laughter!

Just keep being as good of a friend as you were before I was diagnosed. Otay?

Just keep in touch with me....don,t pigeon hole me...

Just keep in touch.. If u can relate

Just keep telling me it's going to be okay

Just keeping in touch means so much

Just lend an ear when I need to whine!!

Just let me kow that you are there.

Just let me work though this but not alone dont tell me what i need to do

Just Listen

Just listen and accept that we will get thru this one day at a time.

Just listen and be there

Just listen and be there when needed

Just listen and hug me when I need it

Just listen to me bitc*h

Just listen to me, let me cry if i need to, and kick my butt when it is needed

Just listen to my gripes and encourage me,

Just listen when I need to talk

Just listen, I need to talk

Just listen, let me know when my perceptions may be off.

just listen...

Just love me

Just love me as I am, even when I am not my peppy self.

Just me there for me.

Just pray for me and treat me the same as always!

Just pray that they find a cure for all cancers!!!!!

Just read =)

just sit with me. its ok not to talk a lot. follow my lead.

Just support me as I do them

just talk to me, i need help through the greiving process as i lost most of my family, other than my sister and mom i dont have much other family at all

Just to have others who Listen

Just treat me the same. I am still Berns. That will never change. Just support me and be awesome like you all are!

Just understand I'm a quite man and hold to much inside. Drives my wife crazy

Keep a positive outlook and pray.

Keep an eye out for anything that might help.

keep an open mind and help me stay positive

keep blogging

keep calling, writing, coming by, texting, emailing..etc

Keep communicating and sharing stories that support patients and families.

Keep doing what they are doing, making me laugh!

Keep doing what you're doing. Laugh, Hope and Pray with/for each other.

Keep in touch

keep in touch =]

keep in touch with me

keep in touch, encouraging words, experience if you've been through this

keep in touch. Healing is a long process, don't loose focus.

Keep in touch. Exchange of experiences.

Keep Learning!

keep me going

Keep me in their prayers and love me.

keep me in your prayers, share your experiences for I am new and don't know what to expect

keep me in your thoughts and prayers, offer me support and hope

Keep me laughing

Keep me laughing and out of PITA-pity-party mode

keep me positive

Keep offering to help, eventually I will give in.

Keep on keeping me going.

keep open ears,minds,and hearts

Keep positive spirit and a permanet smile.

keep praying

Keep Praying and BELIEVE

Keep reminding me that I can get through this. Pray for my healing.

Keep searching for a cure. Its out there...

Keep smiling

keep supporting your loved ones and never give up

Keep talking to me.

keep the encouragement up

Keep them in prayers and high moral support

keep up with the shot that is out for this cancer.

keeping in touch

Kindly help me to live because i want to live-Help me to get the required medical treatment in South Africa as scheduled. Help me raise the required funding. Give me moral support. Call and talk to me at +254724222539. Your encouraging words may be the medicine to my soul as i go through this.....

Know that I am okay.

Know that I can see your feelings in your eyes, please don't hide them from me. I can handle it and will tell you if I can't.

KNOWLEDGE IS POWER...inform me of the meds that help after surgery and RAI

Larry wants talk to someone that has Pancreas Cancer

Laugh at me and with me

laugh with me

Laugh with me, help me stay strong.

Learn about my cancer

Let me sleep.

Let me know about radiation.

Let me know every thing is going to be OK

Let me know how you're dealing with cancer

Let me know you care

Let me make my decisions

Let me support and encourage them.

Let me take a nap in the afternoon

let me talk

Let me talk about being scared that cancer will come back.

let me talk about my fears of dying and the "what if's" - not talking about it is not going to make it go away

listen

Listen and be there for me

Listen and be there for me.

listen and give advice

Listen and not dwell. We are all more than our cancer, we are people.

Listen and offer help when needed

Listen and relate

Listen and share their stories

Listen and share your insights - I'm learning as I go...

listen to me

Listen to me =) Comment on my stuff

Listen to me when I need to talk

listen to me, ask questions, care to know, and care to love me by being involved

Listen when I need it - never tell me "I know everything will be OK"

Listen when I need them too, and give me advice

listen,

Listen, be there, be specific

Listen, hold my hand, not tell me stories about other people "you know".

Listen, love, and laugh with me. Don't baby me, force me to help myself get better

Listen, love, and spread the word.

Listen, Offer advice and knowledge

Listen, pray, keep hoping and fighting

Listen, provide support, offer advice, PRAY

Listen, raise awareness, and support legitimate research

Listen, share, love, fight and get better themselves.

Listen.

Listen. Ignore the fact that I can't get to a phone or text you back even, go above and beyond to be there to listen to me.

Listen. Learn. Ask. Share

Listen. Pray. Hope.

LISTEN; BUT MAKE SURE THEY SEE THEIR MD ROUTINELY

Live everyday and enjoy what they do!!!

Live, Laugh, Love, and be Thankful everyday!!!

Live, Love & Laugh

look about help advice inform

Love and support me and still know im still me, always the joker

Love each other and do not take anything for granted.....Make me laugh!!

Love each other. I just want laughs and positive attitudes. PRAY !!

Love every mintue and love everyone they care for

Love everyone around you as much as you can, as if there is no tomorrow.

love me

Love me when Im being crazy.

love me, laugh with me, be there when I cry.

Love me, love themselves, and keep moving.

Love me, pray for me, and Push me hard when i think i can't do it any more!

Love my husband and kids

Make and donate hats to chemo patients who lose their hair as a result of the treatments. Wigs suck.

MAKE ME FEEL VALUED AND HELP W FINANCIAL

Make me laugh

Make me laugh :D

Make me laugh!

make me laugh!!!!

Make me laugh. ;)

Make me laugh. Just listen sometimes.

Make me smile. That alone is enough :D

make sure I stay positive.

MAKE SURE PEOPLE KNOW HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO WALK SO YOU DON"T GET PNEUMONIA

Make the most of every moment, leave comments

massage, encourage me to do something fun, take me out,

mostly just listening. and understanding that we arent always at our best.

Mostly just pray for and with me to make it through each new sep. (chemo=raditation) Keep me focused on God and not me.

My family and friends have been a blessing. I have enjoyed dinners, babysitting and just listening.

My husband, son, sisters and brother mainly and the rest of my friends are my best cheerleaders.

my kids are all in colleges.i need a suport from u

My supporters can just be there for me and help me laugh.

My up close supporters--my family and the bad girls I work with-- are so there for me.

Need to know what others experienced

Never ignore your body if something changes, even if you're young or healthy...

none

Not tell me that they know what I am going through, most have no clue, because unless you've been there, you just don't know.

Nothing I wish there was something someone could do

Offer hope and encouragement...

offer me new info I am not ready to accept there isn't anything else that can be done

Offer support for on-going issues

Our getting cancer is as hard for family & friends as it is for us. They`re fear of us dying is very difficult, and so they tend to place us in this bubble, tapping on it to see if we are doing okay. I really do appreciate the love, care,concern, & support that I have recieved, sometimes I feel overwhelmed by it all.I have always been rather independant & strong minded, some would call it stubborn. So what my supporter can do for me is to rely on me to let them know when I need help. i have been blessed so far to feeling pretty good, and can still take care of my family much as I did before this life altering diagnosis. that in it`s self is a blessing of which I do not ever lose sight of

P.U.S.H. : Pray Until Something Happens!

Please do not expect me to be the same person mentally, I am so much stronger, and will not take bs!

Please provide me funds to the above mentioned number in the biography

Please stay positive! Please think about what you say before you say it!

Please, please, please encourage friends and family to be more mindful of their thyroid!

Pray

Pray & let me know that I'm not alone in this.

Pray ... and make me laugh!

Pray and be positive around mom

Pray and be there for my children

Pray and get mammograms.

Pray and give to cancer organizations

Pray and Have Compassion For Others

Pray and help me understand how to help my mother

Pray and I sometimes I don,t know how to ask for help.

Pray and stay positive

pray and support

Pray and support the cause

Pray for a miracle that my cancer disappears! Miracles do happen!

Pray for all cancer fighters and for a cure

Pray for all who are effected by cancer, stand strong together

Pray for all who need it.

pray for and encourage with laughter

Pray for both My dad and for my best friend, Cancer fighters~~~

Pray for continued healing of my body!

Pray for everyone's pain and suffering.

pray for God's will for me

pray for healing, wellness and financial wisdom

Pray for him to come closer to God

Pray for me

Pray for me and be there for me when I want to vent

Pray for me and communicate with me - I feel better when I talk about this

Pray for me and donate to this site and to cancer research if you can.

Pray for me and for all on this site

Pray for me and my family

Pray for me to live a long time, with minimal suffering for my family.

Pray for me.

Pray for me. And be an ear to listen when I need one.

Pray for me...Love me...Comfort me.

pray for my dad and husband

Pray for my doctors!!!!

pray for my family and I

Pray for my family.

pray for my healing/ be my friend

pray for my husband and family to get through this

Pray for my husband and our family.

Pray for others fighting for their life battling this horrible disease.

Pray for others going through treatment.

Pray for others.

Pray for reggie...go on twitter and tweet #prayforreggie

pray for strength

PRAY FOR SURVIVAL, STRENGTH, AND MY FAMILY

Pray for us!

Pray Hard

Pray please.

Pray Pray Pray

Pray that God grant me and my family the wisdom, courage and strength to endure the road that lies ahead

PRAY!

PRAY! Call to say hi, PRAY!

Pray! Hugs, patience, let me cry if I have to but not for too long.

Pray, be kind to all.

Pray, check in on me

Pray, don't give me a pity party...I will fight on!

Pray, don't give up on me!

Pray, donate

Pray, Good Thoughts

Pray, laugh and love

pray, make me laugh, have someone just to talk to

Pray, positive encouragement, help out when I am down and out, check in with me periodically by calling,emailing, or just sending a short note

Pray, Pray again and again. Be kind to everyone

Pray, pray, and pray!

Pray, Pray, Pray

pray, pray, pray and then tell me you've been praying!

Pray, Pray, Pray!

pray, pray...and pray some more

pray, teach me it's ok to let people know how I feel

Pray, vote, pray, dream, pray, believe, pray. Live Long, Laugh Often, Love Much

Pray,Pray,Pray

Pray.

Pray. Learn. Hug.

Pray...

PRAY...PRAY.... PRAY!

Pray; Get your mammogram; Make me laugh

Pray; suggest financial resources; make me laugh; send money

Prayer

Prayer and if you are in the SF Bay Area, come to my 06/16/2012 Evolution of Fashion Fundraiser: 1930's Hollywood Made in 2012

Prayer, listen, feedback.

Prayer; support for what's next

Prayers

Prayers & Positive thoughts/energy

Prayers & thoughts

Prayers and advise welcome

prayers and love

prayers and notes

Prayers, hug, words of encouragements, someone to talk to.

Prayers, just knowing your reading or listening helps.

Promote early detection

Provide awareness so we can tackle the CAUSE

Provide funds to cancer research.

Provide inspiration if they have survived liver cancer

Provide positive energy and practical information

Provide sound advice and support

Provide words of encouragement

Push me to get up, push me to get out, push me to make an effort to look good, tell me jokes. Share good news with me. Keep living and allow me to get my life back on track. Understand I will not be the same person next year.

Raise Awarenes

Raise awareness about kidney cancer and contribute to Action to Cure Kidney Cancer to help find a cure.

raise awareness and funding for new research, clinical trials, and alternative treatment options.

Raise awareness and pray

raise awareness and pray for a cure!

Raise awareness.... get a colonoscopy

Raise money for a cure

Raise money for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society, and for Camp Quality

raise money to take me to disneyland (i joke) raise money for cancer research or easier just understand the disease

read my blog & help raise support fir YA's with cancer

read my blog (www.carcinista.com), share it with others, donate to www.ovationsforthecure.org

Read my blog and comment!

Read my blog, relate, be inspired or just understand.

read the manuscript

Reading others experiences, helps take the mystery out, knwoing we're not alone with this

Realize I am not broken, let me be the friend YOU can still lean on.

realize my limitations now so I dont have to always explain myself

Relay positive information for Cancer Survivors

remain positive for me

remain positive, continue to call and be friends

remember me in your prayers

Remember that we are not cured when the treatments sre done thats just when it starts we still cant swallow or eat for many months to come so please be patient.

Respond in compassion

Say prayers.

See your doctor regularly.

Send encouraing messages, and share their stories

Send me a good joke! Make me laugh; I'll return the favor!

send me any motivational advice!

Send me funny and inappropriate texts and emails.

Send me good energy and pray for me

Send me prayers.

Send positive energy and compassion.

Send positive energy, thoughts, and prayers

Send positive messages of support that I can share with Dad

Send positive vibes

Send prayers and positive energy. It really, truly helps!

Send someone going through cancer a hand-written card!

Send words of encourgement

Share

Share and Care

share common info about treatments and results good, bad or indifferent

share experiences

share info - that is why I joined this site

share info and feelings

share similar stories/ orthotics anyone? size 10

share stories

Share stories and encouragement

Share their experiences with cancer affecting their liver and liver failure and what worked for them.

share their own experiences who are further down the road, and continue to fight like mad!!

share their stories

Share your experience

Share your experiences and tips.

Sharing your experiences and getting healthy together

she already dose to much. I just want to say thank you, i love so much!!! u and ur family has been so greatest to me and wanted to tell all, THANK U AND UR FAMILY.

Sign up for a FREE BackUp4TheCure

Sign up for the RileyLMS Fund on iGive.com and come to visit me

Sign up on care calendar.

Smile

smile.

Soup please. Oh and a hug every now and again with a sincere "you CAN do this"

Spead the word about HIFU

speak up no one understand what my family and I are going through like people like us!

Spend time with me.

Spread Awareness of Palliative Care in Honor of my Dad, Odee Lenderink

Spread Laughter

Spread my word

spread teh word for early detection testing

Spread the word about Coleman's Crew. Our walk, CureSearch 2011 Phoenix Walk for Childhood Cancer is on February 26, 2011

Spread the word about Ovarian Cancer

spread the word the girls should start getting paps at 16 and NEVER skip year

Spread the word to others that we all need the love and support from family and friends. Tell them "We need to take care of each other" We can not do it alone. Check out www.mammosite.com for information on breast cancer awarenes

Spread the word- check out cancervictory.com

stay my friend no matter how witchy im going to get this aint no day at the beach

Stay as strong as you can to kick C,s ass. Help save unions in the USA

Stay Positive

Stay positive and dont be afraid to ask questions (or make a joke)

Stay positive and knowing they are there is everything

stay positive and pray

Stay Positive!

Stay positive, and spread love, hope and happiness to all around you...

step up to the plate; send a kind word

Stop looking at me like i just told their 5yr old there isnt a santa claus

Stop saying "it's the best cancer to have"!

stop stigmatizing lung cancer and give it the recognition it needs.

Stop telling me I'm going to be OK..it's never ok anymore :)

Stop treating me like I'm made of glass.

Stop trying to cure me. I have doctors

suggestions to cope

Suggestions, tips and techniques to get through these 6 weeks. It still amazes me that I'm signing up for this treatment. If all of these amazing and strong women can do it, and get through it, just maybe I'll be able to do it too.

Support CANCER causes and don't change how we interact.

Support Everest Rocks!!

Support me in my fund raising goals for Susan G Komen, Avon Walks, and Blog for a Cure

Support my wife and kids. Any financial help would also be appreciated.

Support research

Support the ones in need. Do that and I'll be happy

Support the Testicular Cancer Society and/or anything to make Cancer a National Priority

take care of your health!

Take everything one day at a time....count your blessings!

take excellent, preventive care of your health

take me out of the fear

talk

Talk about cancer on my cancer designated day - remainder days talk about everything else.

Talk about ways to stay in remission

talk and listen ..do fun things ,don't be afraid

talk to me

Talk to me ,Let me Vent and most of all never ever give up hope,Because I will never lose hope.

Talk to me :)

Talk to me about their experiences and prayers.

talk to me like a person

Talk to me, write to me, love me :)

talk to me,tell me what they know

Talk to me...I'm not contagious!

talk with me, not be afraid to say a thing, negative or positive

Talk, say hi, be friendly, inquire.

Tell everyone to get "Fit" along with me

Tell me "beat the odds" sorts of stories.

tell me how do you survive

Tell me your stories, offer your priceless experience

tell others your story

Telling me more jokes so i won't stop laughing.

The importance of screening...no matter what age

there doing a great job already.

They are always positive and show genuine care and concern for me.

They are doing everything that I could ever want from them already and that is as simple as just being there. I am sooooo lucky!!!

They couldn't possibly do any more.

They have done everything

They remind me that there are people out there who "get it"

Think positively

to live momentarily and enjoy thoroughly

Treat each other with kindness and respect, especially your children

Treat me as a normal healthy person.

treat me as normal as possible

Treat me as you always have, I'm still me with or without cancer.

treat me like I'm healthy and stay close..if you wonder what to say..its okay to say nothing, it really is - sometimes I'm speakless myself.

Treat me like it never happened and move on as I have.

Treat me the same way you treated me before cancer came into my life

treat me the same, don't be on eggshells around me

Trust Me!

Try & answer any questions that I may have, that they may have already experienced. PRAY FOR ME & MY FAMILY

try to understand that as survivor and caregiver, my thoughts about all this are different than yours. I see myself in that bed and wonder who will take care of me?

Understand me when I am feelink ok and when I am not

Understand that I need to keep my independance.

Understand that I will change my mind and my attitude without warning.

understand that Im not going to be good everyday

Understand the pressing emotional stress

Understand why?

Understanding, Support, Positive Encouragement

Vaccinate their daughters and teach them in depth about sex

visit and call

Visit and treat him like Himself he is the same person he was before cancer....

Visit Caringbridge

Visit me and send goodies!

Visit my site; follow me on Twitter or my RSS feed; tell Moms and Grandmas about my book

We will make an arrangement with a local colon cancer support group.

Wear SunScreen and stay out of the sun when you can

what they're doing: loving me and being there for me.

word of mouth advertise www.dkfund.org

words of encouragement

Words with friends

Would love to learn from others who have gone through this

Write and chat; I'd love to hear from you, it helps me to keep my mind off things.

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You all are already doing it.